I just had the pleasure of organizing (along with a couple of my fave ladies) and attending one of the best bachelorette parties ever! I mean we had a blast together. It was so great in fact, I think I am still riding pretty high, three days later. So, in an attempt to carry this great feeling with me a little longer, I thought I might answer some of your bach party-related inquiries. Enjoy!
Cute, glittery clutches helped set the stage for our glitzy party!
Are x-rated inflatables still a thing for bachlorette parties?! How do I tell my girls I don't want a dirty, peenie-infested, trashy party without hurting their feelings?
Well, doll, I hate to tell you but adult inflatables still seem to be all the rage in most of your garden variety parties. I know. I don't get it, either. I was right where you're at, sister. Luckily, my maids knew I wasn't that kind of girl so I had it pretty easy. Honesty is always the best policy. Just be firm, candid and tactful with your 'maids and they'll understand. They love you and just want to send you down to matrimonytown in style. So, tell them what that means to you.
How much input should the bride have about her party? We want to surprise her, but we don't want to choose the wrong thing...so, what can we do?
I think the best way to include the bride without giving away the farm is to have her make a list of some of her favorite places. I mean, have her pick her top fives or something. Restaurants, bars, clubs, destinations, landmarks...you get it. Now you have a bunch of bride-approved spots, but you still get to surprise her with a fun, unique party she'll remember for a lifetime.
Hello Kitty rings and frosty bevvies helped kick this bach party into high gear!
We're going to din din, them out on the town. We still want to incorporate some games. When is the best time? What games should we play?
I think the best time for games is during dinner. You've all got some drinks, maybe a starter or two and best of all, everyone is excited for the festivities to start. I also suggest limiting the games to one, maybe two. As for what to play? My all time, favorite game to play is: Bachelorette Party Mad-libs. It's cute, sassy and good for a lot of laughs.
Any thoughts on going to strippers?
Yes. Don't. I don't care for strippers, personally. I think bach parties should be about sending your friend into married life with some class and grace. Not chasing after peenies and asking strange men to buy you drinks. But, to each their own, I suppose.
I want to go out of town on a girl's weekend. I keep imagining us flitting around the city in cute dresses. Is that to much to ask of my bridesmaids, financially speaking?
Ask them. Tell them what you're thinking and ask them how they feel. If you are located near a major city, could you drive there or take the train? This could eliminate airfare and take some of the burden off your guests. If not, perhaps you could think of other ways to lighten the money load...pay part of the hotel bill? Take them out to dinner? Pick up part of the tab? Bottom line: Don't tell them you want to go out of town and then expect them to foot the entire bill. It's not nice.
You guys asked some great questions! Y'all are so smart. I hope this quick little roundup will help you navigate the dark and glittery waters of bachelorette party planning. Have fun, cupcakes!
Did I miss something? wanna put your two cents in? Feel free to leave it in the comments!